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2 years later

Discussion in 'Guest Board' started by Unregistered, Mar 2, 2017.

  1. Unregistered

    Unregistered Guest

    Hello my name is ari and I'm 22 years old, Theres not a moment that goes by where I don't think about the decision I made, knowing that what I did was for the best and tried to ignore that this ever happen has had many effects on my life today. For starters I haven't had sex for 2 years and spend some nights crying in the shower still thinking about what could of been... not alot of people know what I've been through the not even my mother. I don't have nobody I can cry and vent too and for someone to just hug me to tell me it's going to be ok... I didn't think it will still continue to get to me after 2 years I don't know if I can do another year of this...
     
  2. Brokenfairy

    Brokenfairy Look at the stars; look how they shine for you... Alumni Volunteer

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    Hi Ari. Welcome to the boards and thank you for posting! Sharing what you're feeling is really brave but can be so therapeutic! Are you able to make an account? That way, you can access all of the boards here and find plenty of people who are available to talk with you about how you're feeling. I had my first abortion at 22, I joined the boards that night and from there I've found so many friends who have got me through the last eight years. With support, it does get easier! X
     
  3. Trigeo

    Trigeo The Serial Poster Staff Member Administrator Super Moderator Moderator SRG Leader Technical Administrator Support Specialist Manager SRG A5 SRG B5 SRG C5 SRG G5 Yellow Rose Turquoise butterfly Emerald Hot Drink Angel February Leaves

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    Hi, Ari. As Brokenfairy said, please consider making an account and joining us on the main boards. It's a large community full of compassionate people, and we will help you through this. This is a very difficult and complicated grieving process but healing is possible...I'll keep an eye out for you on the boards, hun.
     
  4. Brokenfairy

    Brokenfairy Look at the stars; look how they shine for you... Alumni Volunteer

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    Did you manage to make an account Ari?
     
  5. annieslices34

    annieslices34 Well-Known Member Alumni Volunteer

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    Hello...I agree with the ladies who've posted replies above about generating an account on the site, as you've mentioned some feelings of regret and extreme sadness about your decision to have your abortion, which you can openly process with the ladies here on passboards who have experienced abortion themselves. Sometimes the process of grieving can be delayed for several reasons, and it sounds as if you may be ready to begin facing your feelings and thoughts about your decision to have your abortion. The ladies on the site are extremely supportive and can help you through this process of grieving and healing by providing wonderful and gentle encouragement.
     
  6. Brokenfairy

    Brokenfairy Look at the stars; look how they shine for you... Alumni Volunteer

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    Hi Ari. Just thought I would check in and see how you are? Unsure as to whether guests get email notis x
     
  7. atamanet

    atamanet New Member

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    Yes, i am curious how are you too :)
     
  8. normaber

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    I want to know that too