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[Question?] boyfriend

Discussion in 'Guest Board' started by dia, Jul 7, 2016.

  1. dia

    dia Guest

    I had gotten my abortion in january and ever since my boyfriend wont hold me wont make love to me and sighs saying im greedy when i want hugs. I gave this up for him he said it was him or the baby i wanted to be happy for the month i had been with him i was happiest in 3 years i could cry i felt so happy. I want his attention back im sure he is messaging other girls what do i do leaving is not an option for me. So moving on isn't a viable choice
     
  2. SuzanneL

    SuzanneL Abracadabra Staff Member Moderator SRG C5 Puppy Flip flops Yellow Rose Spring Bouquet Blue Rose Sunflower Wave I love you Kiss Star Dove chocolate Butterfly Candle Butterfly Balloon Emerald

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    I'm sorry love. I've been stuck so to speak, a couple of times so I understand. My best advice is to just do the best you can until you are in a better place. Bc you will be eventually. I did and so can you. And also to seek trusted support like you have here. (((BigHugs)))
     
  3. Trigeo

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    I'm sorry, hun. It's so hard to face the prospect of losing him on top of having lost your potential, especially after making the decision based on an ultimatum. And it must be so hard to only ever hear to "just move on." Whether it's for the best or not, it's not ever easy and not always feasible. Believe in yourself and believe you will be enough for yourself one day to make the choice that is truly yours, whatever it is. Come join us on the main boards to chat with our supportive community.