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[Question?] Complications

Discussion in 'Guest Board' started by Unregistered, Mar 1, 2015.

  1. Unregistered

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    I'm 20 years old amd I had a late term abortion at 19 weeks. A lot of things happened during a two day procedure. The second day was extremely painfull physically, as well as terrifying because there were complications of some sort happening to me and I didn't know if I was going to even be okay physically, let alone emotionally. I know my procedure didn't go smoothly because I was at the clinic with four other girls and we all started the second day procedures at the same time that morning (took the pills at the same time), and they were fine while I had awful pain and nausea. I know they did the actual abortion two hours before I was supposed to have it because I was in so much pain. I couldn't walk and I was trying not to scream. It was the worst pain I've ever felt and I thought I was going to die. At one point shortly before they took me into the operating room, I had fallen on the hallway floor and a nurse was trying examine me down there. I asked her if I was going to be okay, and she said "no, not if we can't get this under control". But the entire time this was going on all the nurses and doctor said were "this just happens sometimes" or "this happens to some girls". I habe no idea what happened, why my body was reacting that way or why it was apparently such a dangerous situation. After it was over I was just so relieved the pain was gone I didn't ask, and they'd given me morphine so I didn't care I was really happy go lucky right after it was finished so I didn't press harder for information. But I want to know what happened and why. Would anyone on here have had a similiar experience who knows what happened, or does anyone know how I could go about finding out? Thanks
     
  2. Buckette

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    I'm so sorry for all you've been through and are going through, hun.

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