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[Trigger!] how long do the memories last

Discussion in 'Guest Board' started by Unregistered, Jan 11, 2016.

  1. Unregistered

    Unregistered Guest

    Hi
    Had an abortion 33 years ago and only recently have begun to deal with it. At the time it didn't bother me but now I have nightmares and want to write to the guy and tell him how I feel, but everyone says not to do it. I am stuck. We had a brief affair and he was married but had been in love with me for several years before anything happened. He is still married to the same woman and eventually I wrote to her and told her what happened after keeping it a secret with him for about 30 years. She only wanted to know why I was telling her after all that time.
     
  2. Buckette

    Buckette Oldie Staff Member Administrator Super Moderator Moderator SRG Manager SRG Leader Technical Administrator Junior Support Specialist Manager Moderator Manager SRG A5 SRG B5 SRG C5 SRG D5 SRG G5 SRG F5 Sapphire Turquoise butterfly Emerald

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    It's all there till we deal with it, hun, and we never forget...........though it is very possible to come to terms with it and to live a good life.

    Please register for an account and join us on the main boards. The Guest Board is only seen by volunteers and Admins, but you will find many, many women who understand exactly what you are feeling there. It's a good, safe, neutral place and you are far from alone.
     
  3. SuzanneL

    SuzanneL Abracadabra Staff Member Moderator SRG C5 Flip flops Spring Bouquet Wave Kiss Star Butterfly Candle Butterfly Balloon Emerald

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    It's a process that is different for everyone, but therapy and this site healed me. (((BigHugs)))