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Discussion in 'Guest Board' started by zigzig94, Jun 4, 2016.

  1. zigzig94

    zigzig94 New Member

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    .. Don’t know where to start ..

    I am currently 26 years old. I was in a on and off 2 1/2 year relationship. We got into a relationship 2 weeks after knowing each other. We met at college. I always knew we were doomed from the beginning because we were not compatible. But I loved him enough to keep the relationship going. I broke up with him in November because I felt like our problems were reflecting in his grades. He was my first for everything; first relationship, only person I had sex with. Because of that I had a conversation with him told him “even though we aren’t together i don’t want to have sex with anyone else nor do I want to see anyone else, I still love you”. So we continued having sex. In February I found out I was pregnant. I called him right away to share the news. He didn’t answer. I figured since we were arguing for a week about something really stupid thats why he didn’t answer so I texted him. He called me a manipulative liar and refused to talk to me. I showed him proof but still got no answer. I turned to his mom for support but she turned out to be the devil. She didn’t believe me at first, called me a liar. When I showed her proof she started to believe me. But she started to make me feel like it was my fault and that I will ruin her sons future because he was still in school. Weeks went by and he still wouldn’t talk to me. I felt alone, and helpless. I didn’t know what to do. Eventually in March I got an abortion. The day I got it done was the first time he called me since I told him the news. He gave a 10 minute conversation on if I got it done and then said he would call me back. Later on I find out through friends he went out to party and got drunk. I had so much anxiety that night so the next day I took the 1.5 hour ride down to his school unannounced. I just wanted to get an answer why he treated me so poorly throughout this time. As soon as he got in my car he didn’t ask how I was doing or how I’m feeling. Instead he told me he was hungry and that I should pay for it since he didn’t have money. He refused to have the conversation. I was about to cry and he told me to suck it up. I had to cry in the bathroom. I went in for a hug and he pushed me away, looked down on his shirt if I got it wet with my tears. I felt so low, i felt like not living anymore. Now months have past and I have not gotten an apology nor has he asked how I am doing. I did not receive any emotional, physical nor financial help from him. Instead he blocked me after he told me he has moved on with someone else. I always knew he was not a good guy for me because he treated me poorly throughout the relationship. I just didn’t know he would stoop this low. t lost my peace of mind. I can’t trust anyone anymore. All I feel is hate in my heart.
     
  2. Buckette

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    I'm so sorry for all you've been through and are going through, zigzag, but I'm very glad you will be joining us on the main boards once you receive your email confirmation. You will find many there who understand. (((hugs)))
     
  3. Trigeo

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    I'm so sorry, zigzag, this is all very sad and difficult. I'll look for you on the main boards and hope we can help you to heal.
     
  4. Miss Chip

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    I'm so sorry you are hurting. I know what it feels like to feel alone in the whole process, and I was your age when I had my ab too. But things do get better. I saw you have created an account. I hope being here will help you as much as it's helped me.