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Discussion in 'Guest Board' started by Unregistered, Jul 11, 2016.

  1. Unregistered

    Unregistered Guest

    It's been 5 years this month that I made a quick decision without thinking. Now everyday since then I have regretted it. The worst part is I never told the father and I now have two children with him, I recently had our second child and the guilt is engulfing me everyday more and more. It's on tip of my tongue to tell him but I fear that he will hate me! I need to talk about it with him. But my shame and fear holds me back. My reasoning then to have the abortion was the we had only been dating for 3 months and I just got freaked out about having a child with someone I might not be with next month. Now I tell myself I was selfish because I decided not to tell him. But before having my baby they had him leave the room because of the medical information I didn't want him to know about and I feel like I don't want to live like that anymore atleast not with him. How do I tell him????????
     
  2. Trigeo

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    This is a difficult situation and in sorry you're facing it. I recommend you register for an account and join us in the main boards where you will have access to our supportive community and to read the thousands and thousands of threads...you may find something which speaks to you and your circumstances. This board is seen only by admin and volunteers. Peace to you.