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[I need support . . .] Please help me.

Discussion in 'Guest Board' started by Unregistered, May 29, 2013.

  1. Unregistered

    Unregistered Guest

    I don't really know what to say or how to begin. Happened last january, I couldn't afford to have a baby, nor drop out of college. Me and my boy friend had only been together a short time. My family was completely torn apart at the time by other matters. I am realizing now that I need help, I cry all the time, wondering if I made the right choice, I am so sad, I don't have hobbies anymore, I don't have any ambition todo anything. I gained 20lbs since then. I am almost in tears just writing this. I can't sleep at night

    I don't have anyone else to talk to.

    I just feel so alone.
     
  2. Buckette

    Buckette Oldie Staff Member Administrator Super Moderator Moderator SRG Manager SRG Leader Technical Administrator Junior Support Specialist Manager Moderator Manager SRG A5 SRG B5 SRG C5 SRG D5 SRG G5 SRG F5 Sapphire Turquoise butterfly Emerald

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    Oh, honey, I'm so sorry for all you've been through and are going through. This is a good, safe site where we all understand because we've all been or are where you are. Our stories may be different, but the feelings are very much the same.

    Please, please register and come onto the main boards. This board is only seen by mods and volunteers. It takes a day or so after registration to be admitted so don't panic if it doesn't happen right away. In order to assure the safety, insure the political and religious neutrality of the site and to avoid spammers, all registration approvals are done manually.

    Lots of hugs....it really can get much better, I promise.
     
  3. Twin Flame

    Twin Flame ...that place between sleep and awake... Alumni Volunteer Wave

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    Hi! I just want to tell you things can get better. Buckette is right. Please join the main boards. You are not alone. :hug:
     
  4. ~Karen~

    ~Karen~ ✿*¨✿¨*✿*¨✿¨*✿*¨✿¨*✿ SuperMod ~ Volunteer Manager ~ Super Moderator Alumni Volunteer

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    I hope that you have created an account to join us, accounts once you've activated your email will be approved as quick as possible, and this isn't usually more than 8 hours - its normally much much less as we check and approve accounts as often as we can :)
     
  5. Unregistered

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    I have been suffering with abortion issues since 2011 and still am til this day. Ive had psychiatrists and therapist since probably 2009 for depression but lately have not been seeing anyone. I feel so upset, lost, extremely alone, heart broken. i feel like everything in my life has gone wrong and I will never be happy with the decisions I've made. I feel like I've lost all respect for myself and I don't have a lot to live for. I don't know why I can't get my life together. I feel hopeless and angry.


    -A
     
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  6. Buckette

    Buckette Oldie Staff Member Administrator Super Moderator Moderator SRG Manager SRG Leader Technical Administrator Junior Support Specialist Manager Moderator Manager SRG A5 SRG B5 SRG C5 SRG D5 SRG G5 SRG F5 Sapphire Turquoise butterfly Emerald

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    I'm sorry you've been struggling so badly, hun. I do hope you register to come on the boards.....it's an amazing group from all over the world and we all understand. The best help I've found is being able to talk with women who "get it", who've been there.

    It really can get better.....many of us didn't seek out help until years later. \h
     
  7. Rowanoak

    Rowanoak 'Be kind to people, for everyone you meet is fight Alumni Volunteer

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    I'm so sorry that you are suffering this way. :j It really does get better, although the healing process is so individual, including the amount of time it takes.

    My heart goes out to you. I felt I had no real choice, not in any true sense of the word. I was poor, a student, and it was just hopeless. These situations are often so terribly sad.

    +s