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Post Abortion Depression

Discussion in 'Guest Board' started by Unregistered, Sep 6, 2016.

  1. Unregistered

    Unregistered Guest

    I am not sure if anyone is reading this. I am going through mixed feeling right now. Let me tell you a brief background of my relationship with this guy: I met him June 2015 on a job interview for a marketing position. After the interview he starting texting me about meeting up for seesha. I was already going through a break up and I decided to see him few times before starting the new job to ensure I was serious about working with him. Then we started meeting on a regular bases. Finally after a week of starting a job we decided to be in a relationship/dating. Things became serious fast since he was going through a divorce and I was getting over a breakup. We had always discussed abortion if i became pregnant. A year later I did get pregnant and I wanted to keep the baby and he wanted abortion and he finally talked me in to abortion. i became very mean to him and felt guilty through the process. He only came on the first visit afterward I was all alone. I took the pills alone on a weekend and he was always busy the following week. He finally went out of country for his brother's wedding and he never called from there. I always called him and became really depressed on my last visit with the doctor and I cursed him over the phone. He decided to come after a month and for a week I had no idea where he was. We met up few times before he decided to take another trip without telling me to London. That week was very depressed. Once he came back he always met me with his friend present, We had always talked about getting married but when I finally gave him the ring he told me lets talk when his friend is not there. I tried that day to see him alone but his friend always tagged along. I have already quit the job in his company but he still asks me to help me with his business and I did not mind until now I feel abdonded by him. I am hurt depressed and sad.
     
  2. Trigeo

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    Yes, someone's reading it, hun. :) I'm so sorry for all you've experienced and continue to experience. This sounds very confusing and lonely. Please consider registering for an account as this board is seen by volunteers and admin only while the main boards have a whole community of supportive members. You will not be alone there and everyone will be happy to help you through this.